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The Basics of Flogging By Keith L Kendrick

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THE BASICS
Beginners Guide to Dominance and Submission (Manual)
By James Bryant

Common Mistakes New People Make by Anonymous

BDSM Isn't What It Used To Be by Keith L Kendrick

Creating Your First Scene  by Mistress Steel
Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3 -  Summary

Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 1 by Mistress Steel
Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 2 by Mistress Steel

Dungeon Party Etiquette by Xmentor

Eight Techniques for Maintaining Communication and
Trust During a Scene by Chris M

Finding a Kinky Partner (Manual) by Tamar Kay Coming Soon

I Said, You Heard  by CC

Miscellaneous Tips & Info for Newbies
Excerpts from 12/6/00 Dungeon Chat

Munch Etiquette by Xmentor

Protocol vs Etiquette by Xmentor

Public Play - Be Discreet When Out In Public Author Unknown

Responsibilities of a Dominant By Les Is More

Safe, Sane, and Consensual by Tamar Kay

Safety For Women Author Unknown

Safewords: To Red or Not to Red by miria hunter

Sanity: The Central Tenant in SS&C by Chris M

Slave Safety (Manual) by slave Coyote

An SM Spirituality Primer -  Aftercare by Chris M

Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey

Some Facts About BDSM contributed by Master Fire and his kitten

So You Want To Be A Slave: The Realities by miria hunter

Sub Space by Mistress Steel

Ten Rules for Submissivess by Master Lordstar

Top Ten Rules for Dom/mes by Master Lordstar

Understanding Submission (Manual)by Peter
Table of Contents

Wannabe or Domiant Author Unknown

What is a "scene" and what is "negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus
Coming Soon

Where Do I Start (Manual)  by Sensuous Sadie Coming Soon
    Getting Involved In The BDSM Community
   Exploring Relationship Options In BDSM
   Getting up to Speed on the Technical Stuff of Dominance
   Okay I have a Submissive What the Heck Do I Do Now?

CONTRACTS & NEGOTIATIONS
Beyond Limits by Mistress Steel

Considering a 24/7 Relationship by Sensuous Sadie

D/s Questionnaire by Master LordStar

Establishing Limits by miria hunter

Hard Limits by Mistress Steel

Interviewing a Prospective D/s or BDSM Partner by Clair Matin

Negotiating the Emotional Landscape of D/s Play by Sensous Sadie

Negotiation Form by Master LordStar

On Patience: Or, How Do I Get A Dom Anyway? by MsMargo

Sex Slave Rules and Contracts by Lord Cuff * Sex Slaves of Hickory
Switch

Taking Repsonsibility by Mistress Steel

What is a "Scene" and What is a "Negotiation"? by Rob
Jellinghaus


HEALTH & SAFETY     

Abuse and Safety in BDSM by CrimsonLord

Abuse in BDSM by SilverOz

Abuse in BDSM - Are You Being Abused? by International
S/M-Leather-Fetish Celebration; text provided by Jan Hall.

Abuse, subs need to take a stand by bob harris

An Obedient and Good Girl by Scott Yancey

BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne
I: BDSM and Child Abuse
II: BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne

Breath Control Play, The Medical Realities of  by Jay Wiseman

Coronary Heart Disease: Angina & Heart Attack Its Impact Upon
the BDSM Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN

Cyber-rape....or the Perception of Cyber-rape by Esmerelda

Dealing With Abuse by Mistress Steel

Diabetes Mellitus: Its Impact Upon the BDSM
Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN

Domestic Violence in The Leather/ BDSM/ Fetish
Community
Preamble/History
Official Statement on DV
Pamphlet 1 - Abuse vs. BDSM
Pamphlet 2 - What Newcomers Should Know
Pamphlet 3 - Polyamorous Considerations
Pamphlet 4 - Master/slave Considerations
Pamphlet 5 - Considerations for Sex Workers
Pamphlet 6 - Considerations for Transgenders
Pamphlet 7 - Considerations for Submissives
Pamphlet 8 - Considerations for Dominants
Pamphlet 9 - Abuse Based on Size
Pamphlet 10 - Abuse Based on Age
Pamphlet 11 - Abuse Based on Physical Ability
Pamphlet 12 - Considerations for the Deaf  by National Leather
Association-International
(NLA-I)

Domestic Violence in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender
Relationships by Colorado Anti-Violence Program

D/s Injuries by Anonymous

How do you simulate a nonconsensual spanking? by Little Girl Lost

Psychotherapy & D/s by Alan Meltzer

Safety For Women by Author Unknown

Safewords: To Red or not to Red by miria hunter

Slave Safety by slave Coyote

Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey

STD Series: Chlamydia by Nurse Tulsa

Sterile Safety by Mistress Steel

Ten Tips For Dungeon Monitors by Jay Wiseman




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