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| TYPES OF PLAY The Basics of Flogging By Keith L Kendrick Grim's Flogging FAQ's (Manual) by Grim |
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| THE BASICS Beginners Guide to Dominance and Submission (Manual) By James Bryant Common Mistakes New People Make by Anonymous BDSM Isn't What It Used To Be by Keith L Kendrick Creating Your First Scene by Mistress Steel Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3 - Summary Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 1 by Mistress Steel Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 2 by Mistress Steel Dungeon Party Etiquette by Xmentor Eight Techniques for Maintaining Communication and Trust During a Scene by Chris M Finding a Kinky Partner (Manual) by Tamar Kay Coming Soon I Said, You Heard by CC Miscellaneous Tips & Info for Newbies Excerpts from 12/6/00 Dungeon Chat Munch Etiquette by Xmentor Protocol vs Etiquette by Xmentor Public Play - Be Discreet When Out In Public Author Unknown Responsibilities of a Dominant By Les Is More Safe, Sane, and Consensual by Tamar Kay Safety For Women Author Unknown Safewords: To Red or Not to Red by miria hunter Sanity: The Central Tenant in SS&C by Chris M Slave Safety (Manual) by slave Coyote An SM Spirituality Primer - Aftercare by Chris M Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey Some Facts About BDSM contributed by Master Fire and his kitten So You Want To Be A Slave: The Realities by miria hunter Sub Space by Mistress Steel Ten Rules for Submissivess by Master Lordstar Top Ten Rules for Dom/mes by Master Lordstar Understanding Submission (Manual)by Peter Table of Contents Wannabe or Domiant Author Unknown What is a "scene" and what is "negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus Coming Soon Where Do I Start (Manual) by Sensuous Sadie Coming Soon Getting Involved In The BDSM Community Exploring Relationship Options In BDSM Getting up to Speed on the Technical Stuff of Dominance Okay I have a Submissive What the Heck Do I Do Now? CONTRACTS & NEGOTIATIONS Beyond Limits by Mistress Steel Considering a 24/7 Relationship by Sensuous Sadie D/s Questionnaire by Master LordStar Establishing Limits by miria hunter Hard Limits by Mistress Steel Interviewing a Prospective D/s or BDSM Partner by Clair Matin Negotiating the Emotional Landscape of D/s Play by Sensous Sadie Negotiation Form by Master LordStar On Patience: Or, How Do I Get A Dom Anyway? by MsMargo Sex Slave Rules and Contracts by Lord Cuff * Sex Slaves of Hickory Switch Taking Repsonsibility by Mistress Steel What is a "Scene" and What is a "Negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus HEALTH & SAFETY Abuse and Safety in BDSM by CrimsonLord Abuse in BDSM by SilverOz Abuse in BDSM - Are You Being Abused? by International S/M-Leather-Fetish Celebration; text provided by Jan Hall. Abuse, subs need to take a stand by bob harris An Obedient and Good Girl by Scott Yancey BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne I: BDSM and Child Abuse II: BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne Breath Control Play, The Medical Realities of by Jay Wiseman Coronary Heart Disease: Angina & Heart Attack Its Impact Upon the BDSM Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN Cyber-rape....or the Perception of Cyber-rape by Esmerelda Dealing With Abuse by Mistress Steel Diabetes Mellitus: Its Impact Upon the BDSM Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN Domestic Violence in The Leather/ BDSM/ Fetish Community Preamble/History Official Statement on DV Pamphlet 1 - Abuse vs. BDSM Pamphlet 2 - What Newcomers Should Know Pamphlet 3 - Polyamorous Considerations Pamphlet 4 - Master/slave Considerations Pamphlet 5 - Considerations for Sex Workers Pamphlet 6 - Considerations for Transgenders Pamphlet 7 - Considerations for Submissives Pamphlet 8 - Considerations for Dominants Pamphlet 9 - Abuse Based on Size Pamphlet 10 - Abuse Based on Age Pamphlet 11 - Abuse Based on Physical Ability Pamphlet 12 - Considerations for the Deaf by National Leather Association-International (NLA-I) Domestic Violence in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Relationships by Colorado Anti-Violence Program D/s Injuries by Anonymous How do you simulate a nonconsensual spanking? by Little Girl Lost Psychotherapy & D/s by Alan Meltzer Safety For Women by Author Unknown Safewords: To Red or not to Red by miria hunter Slave Safety by slave Coyote Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey STD Series: Chlamydia by Nurse Tulsa Sterile Safety by Mistress Steel Ten Tips For Dungeon Monitors by Jay Wiseman EQUIPMENT Toys APPAREL BONDAGE EDGE PLAY FETISH PERSONAL COLUMNS From the Top From the Bottom Misc. |
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