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| Disclaimer: Please be advised, this manual is meant to propose and provide possible options for making your play safer. It is not a “how to” manual, nor should any of the options be construed as instructional absolutes. The author shall not be held responsible for any action taken or idea used by anyone who has read this manual. The author does not recommend engaging in any of these possible behaviors unless you have been taught in a hands on manner. Written in its entirety by Catherine M. Gross. Do not copy or distribute without permission. ©2000-2007 |
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| Safety Is Everything |
Safety Manual by Catherine Gross |
| 1981 (approximately). It means that all participants are committed to: Safety: taking all precautions and educating oneself in order to play as safely as possible; Sane: Being in an unimpaired state to make “sane” decisions which will not recklessly endanger each other; Consensuality: Each party agrees and freely chooses to engage in agreed activities. With SSC used as foundation, SM may be a powerful tool to gain intimacy, understanding, intense physical and emotional states shared by two or more individuals. SM, from an educated stance, does not resemble the out of control, violent scenes at times imagined by the general public or portrayed by the media. It is a loving intimate sexual expression chosen by sane adults. |
interpret what you may see at a public gathering or hear someone discussing. It is my hope that the following pages will provide you with a basic knowledge of several areas. In this short space, it would be impossible to be in depth concerning all areas of BDSM. Please only use this as a basic guideline. SSC is an acronym that stands for Safe, Sane and Consensual. This has become a credo for the American SM community at large. It was originally used by GMSMA (NY based gay male group) in |
| BDSM is extremely diverse and may take many forms. It is important to respect each other’s kink. Not everyone will gain pleasure from the same activity. I feel it is of value to learn about kinks that may not be of interest to you. It may help you be tolerant of other’s kinds and it’s possible that what you learn may not be a kink for you now but could become a kink for you later. Knowledge and information are valuable for your own clarity on what SM is and isn’t. In this manual you may read about activities which have no interest for you whatsoever. Knowledge in all areas, even within activities you would not seek to personally engage in, is recommended. It will allow you, perhaps on a future occasion to better |
Diversity is powerful and basic to SM. No two people play the same.... |

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