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Safety Manual
by Catherine Gross
chemical unless you have been
trained to do so by an expert.

Be cognizant of the area you intend
to play with: a) is this is hairy area;
b) is there scar tissue; c) is there an
open wound? d) how close is this
to the face, head hair, eyes,
fingernails?

Hair will ignite and you can say
good-bye to it immediately.  Make
sure your bottom is cool with this.  
Scar tissue may be more sensitive,
ask your bottom, or may have
curves that are more difficult to
control.  Test the area.  You can do
fire play over an open wound,
however, this may lead to
scarification and therefore I would
discuss this fully with your bottom.  
Face, head hair, eyes, cunts and
fingernails are not good places to
run fire. As to cunts, it’s hard to
control, there are so many folds, I
don’t recommend it. Now there
are  exceptions.  I personally have
used my fingernails as torches.  It
worked well for fear tactics.  I
brought it close but never placed it
on the bottom as there are
chemicals in my nails and I didn’t
want to deal with a chemical burn.
Dipping one’s fingernails in a glass
of water will easily take care of the
flame. Your manicurist can take
care of the rest.
play safely with fire, you should
have these items on hand: 1) two
bath towels that are wet; and 2) a
small fire extinguisher.

Make sure you and your bottom
don’t have any clothes, untied hair,
finger nails, etc. that could easily
catch fire because of their close
proximity or dangling nature.  Know
your environment.  Make it as non-
flammable as possible. Fire may
spread in an instant. Don’t panic.  
Calmness will allow you to handle
any situation quickly and
adequately. Also, learn how to use
your fire extinguisher beforehand.

Make sure your bottom
understands that fire travels
upwards.  Sitting up as a reaction to
fire is not a good thing.  Instruct
your bottom not to move away
from the fire either.  You need to
maintain a close proximity so you
may wipe the fire out with your
hand.

Don’t use alcohol that has a higher
alcohol content then 70%.  The
other solutions burn hotter and
longer. I do not recommend
scented alcohol (such as
Wintergreen) as there are oils in it
which will make it burn longer,
hotter, and will be difficult to put
out.  Generally do not
use another


Never let a flame burn on skin,
immediately swipe the flame with
your hand. Even if you don’t see a
flame- come behind it with your
hand.  You may not see it, but it
could be there and burning your
bottom.  

Also, sometimes torches drip, be
aware of this, be ready for it.  Keep
your eyes on the flame and on the
skin.  Make sure that whatever is
beneath you is not highly
flammable.  I watched a shower
curtain torch up at a play party from
just such drips.  I recommend
wearing shoes that are not open
toed.  Alcohol may pool on
occasion, be aware of this and put
it out immediately.  Avoid cracks
and crevices.  Use smaller areas,
they are easier to control. Don’t
blow on it- this will only spread it.
Don’t slap it, this can spread it.  
Don’t do fire play over an area you’
ve waxed even if you can’t see
particulant.  Trust me, it’s there.

This activity should be a mentored
skill.    Proceed with caution and
have fun.
Fire Play
Wax: Temperature & Color
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If a someone is burned the first
items to attend to are: 1) move the
victim away from the fire; 2) put the
fire out; 3) if the person’s clothing is
on fire they should be rolled in a
blanket or doused in water (only use
water if this fire was not created
with alcohol.  Alcohol floats on
water and all you will do is spread
it); 4) cut away smoldering clothing,
do not pull; and 5) if the fibers
adhere to the skin tightly, don’t pull,
douse in water to loosen.  

Types of Burns
A first degree burn is characterized
by red, painful skin with no blisters.  
It ordinarily heals in three to seven
days. It is limited to the epidermis
(first layer).  A sunburn is a good
example of a first degree burn.

A second degree burn (also
referred to as a partial thickness
burn) effects all epidermal layers
and extends into the dermis.  There
are two classifications:  a)
superficial which involves only
outermost part of the dermis and is
very painful.  Characterized by
mottled skin, pink or red and
blanches with pressure.  This will
heal in ten to eighteen days without
permanent scars; and b) deep
destruction down to the last layer of
dermis.  The burn will be moist,
blistered and mix with areas of
mottled red and white patches. The
skin does not blanch and may not
be painful. Healing may take weeks
and leave scars, if this burn
becomes infected, by definition is
becomes a third degree burn.

Third degree burns are the
destruction of all epidermal and
dermal layers right down to the
subcutaneous tissue.  Skin may
appear charred, leathery or pale and
dry. Usually there is no pain as the
nerve endings have been destroyed.  
Healing occurs with skin grafting or
scarring.

To treat a first degree burn immerse
the burned area in cool water or
apply a cold compress within an
hour of the injury