Water Sports Training Manual
by Hartley
HOW DO I ASK FOR IT?
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7. HOW DO I ASK FOR IT?
At this point, you may think you could be completely uninhibited with the thought of
peeing with your lover, but you don't think you could ever persuade your lover to
participate. How do you broach the topic?
I can only tell you what worked for me. Pick an intimate but relaxed moment. Begin the
conversation by talking about how much you enjoy touching your lover. Tell your lover
about the parts of his or her body you find beautiful and delicious to touch. Do a little
touching. Encourage talk about fantasies and dreams. Try to get your lover to reveal one of
his or her own secret fantasies. Whatever your lover's fantasy might be, try to find
something exciting in it. If you genuinely find it exciting, let your lover know.
Explain to your lover how much you love his or her lingam or yoni, how sometimes you
focus on it and can't think of anything else. This moment would be a good time to kiss it or
lick it or suck it or all of the above. Tell your lover that you love everything about his or
her lingam or yoni -- that everything it does excites you. Even the water that pours from it
excites you. It excites you because of the person it comes from. Suggest that perhaps
someday you'd like to get closer to it -- to touch it or maybe even taste it. And phrase it
that way -- perhaps someday. You don't want to be applying pressure. If there's hesitancy,
give oral sex again. Tell your lover how much you enjoy giving oral sex. Say that you
enjoy it primarily because of who is receiving it. Tell your lover that you enjoy it with him
or her so much you would do it even while the spring was flowing. Whenever your lover
indicates verbally or by body language that he or she is uncomfortable with what you're
suggesting, issue a complement that is off the subject. Hug and kiss and nibble ears. Do
whatever it takes to make your lover comfortable again. Comforting speaks volumes louder
than begging.
If you do all these things and have made no apparent progress, put it aside for a few weeks
or months, then try the same thing again. You may have made more progress than you
thought. Your lover may just need time to get used to the idea. Allow as much time as it
takes.