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~ D/s Questionnaire ~

The following is a play list for determining basic kink-compatibility. It is not meant to be exhaustive. It is useful in focusing discussions of D/s play.

Activities are organized by some sort of vague categories. But, as with most everything, you might categorize some items very differently. However, organizing activities in some way allows the Dom to get some idea of whether the sub's interests are primarily sexual, obedience, masochistic etc.

I also make it clear to the sub that not everything on the list is something I like or expect. I want to see what the sub likes, absent my input. I assume that this will start to shift once he or she knows what I like. But I want to raw data first.

A. Indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5 -- or as a NO.

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances.
0 means you LOATHE that activity, may even be appalled at it -- but you are willing to do it at least a little to please the Dominant.
1 means you don't care -- and you'll do it.
2 means it's pleasurable or fun, not real hot.
3 means you're curious about it, not sure how you'll respond.
4 means you love it, you get hot thinking of it.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on, you're frantic to try it or do it more

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Sexual Activities	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Anal penetration Anal penetration (doing) Anal fisting Anilingus Cock worship (doing) Cunnilingus (getting) Cunnilingus (giving) Digital sex Direct masturbation Double penetration (oral/anal) Eating/drinking cum (others') Eating/drinking cum (own) Fantasy rape Fellatio (receiving) Fellatio (giving) Group sex Intercourse Oral sex Strap-ons Threesomes Vaginal sex Vibrator/dildo
Bondage (Circle the degree of immobility or helplessness enjoyed)
Light Moderate Extreme
	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
1-3 hour duration 3-6 hour duration Overnight duration Arm sleeves Bondage (light) Bondage (heavy) Breast bondage Cages Ceiling/wall hooks Collars (leather) Collars (other) Cotton ropes Chains Cuffs (leather) Cuffs (other) Gags (ball) Gags (funnel) Gags (panties) Gags (other) Genital bondage Harnessing (suspended) Intricate rope bondage Leather restraints Mental bondage Mummification Nylon rope Saran wrapping Shackles Silk scarves Slings/swings Spreader-bars Spread-eagle Stocks Straight jackets Strapping - full body Suspension (on toes) Suspension (full) Suspension (inverted)
Punishment	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Belt/strap Braided cat Cane Deerskin cat-o-nine tails Fiberglass/plastic rod Leather cat Leather paddle Riding crop Rubber whip Single lash Spanking Switch Wooden paddle
Fetishes	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Boot worship Corsets (wearing) Corsets (on others) Foot Worship Forced x dressing High heel wearing High heel worship Uniforms Latex wearing Latex, on others Rubber wearing Rubber on others Leather wearing Leather on others
Humiliation & Exhibitionism	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Crossing dressing Crawling Dirty words Face slapping Foot kissing Kneeling Lead on leash Pub. display Pub. embarrassment Pub. sex Secret sex in public Verbal abuse
Bodily Functions	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Breath Control Brown showers Catheterization Eating/drinking own waste Enemas Physical Examinations Golden showers Medical scenes Menstrual service Other Water Sports
Intense Sensation (aka Pain) Some of these items are listed elsewhere when done for effect, and not intense sensation.	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Branding Caning Clip & Clamps Cock & Ball torture Cutting Electrical play Flogging Heat Needles (Play piercing) Scratching (giving) Scratching (receiving) Spanking (over knee) Spanking (other) Wax Whipping (single tail) Whipping (other) Other pain
Other	Done it? Yes or No	Rate it: No, 0 - 5
Blindfolded Branding (not for pain but for marking) Cock rings Chosen, clothing for Chosen, food for Chosen, toys for Diapering Exhibitionism Fantasy rape Following orders Forced nudity Forced servitude Collared, x dressed Given away Hair pulling Hoods (leather) Hoods (metal) Hoods (other) Hot wax Housework (nude,collared) Housework Humiliation in private Humiliation in public Ice Infantilism Interrogations Kidnapping Kneeling Knife play Lectured Licking (receiving) Licking (doing) Massage - getting Massage - giving Mouth bits Oils, lotions, spices Piercing (permanent) Phone sex Photographs Plaster casting genitals Romantic play Sensory deprivation Serving Serving as ashtray Serving as furniture Serving as a maid Serving as a pony Shaving Shaving Soap in mouth Recruiting victims Tattoos Swapping Teasing Tickling Verbal humiliation Voyeurism Videoed scenes Wrestling
For you, the turn-on of D/s is: [pick 3 and rate 1 the most important]
Visual Psychological Aural (Sound) Sensory-intense Emotional Sensual-erotic
What positions have the highest erotic value for you, unless specified, positions are not bound: [rate as many as you like]
Standing bondage Lying on back Lying face down Kneeling Hands & Knees [Other]
What toys have the highest erotic value for you: [1=some interest; 2=pretty exciting; 3=very erotic]
Whips Floggers Canes Paddles Electrical toys Ropes Chains Leather Restraints Wax Knives Nipple clamps Clothespins Paddles Uniforms Dildoes Vibrators Butt plugs Gags Handcuffs Blindfolds Belts Harnesses & Slings Boots/shoes Clothing Collars
How do you like it?: (use all that apply) (N) never, (T) thudy, (S)stingy, (L)light, (M)medium (ouch), (H)heavy (hurts), (?)Unsure
Back & Shoulders Bottom & thighs Breasts & chest Feet & ankles Genitals Wrists
What parts of your body are most erotically sensitive: [list all]

What parts of your Dom's body would you most like to pleasure: [list all]

List any known limits: