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THE BASICS
Beginners Guide to Dominance and Submission (Manual)
By James Bryant
Common Mistakes New People Make by Anonymous
BDSM Isn't What It Used To Be by Keith L Kendrick
Creating Your First Scene by Mistress Steel
Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3 - Summary
Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 1 by Mistress Steel
Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 2 by Mistress Steel
Dungeon Party Etiquette by Xmentor
Eight Techniques for Maintaining Communication and
Trust During a Scene by Chris M
Finding a Kinky Partner (Manual) by Tamar Kay
Knowing yourself and your values
Knowing whom you're looking for
Being respectful and caring about others
Having fun and sharing fun
Good communication
I Said, You Heard by CC
Miscellaneous Tips & Info for Newbies
Excerpts from 12/6/00 Dungeon Chat
Munch Etiquette by Xmentor
Protocol vs Etiquette by Xmentor
Public Play - Be Discreet When Out In Public Author Unknown
Responsibilities of a Dominant By Les Is More
Safe, Sane, and Consensual by Tamar Kay
Safety For Women Author Unknown
Safewords: To Red or Not to Red by miria hunter
Sanity: The Central Tenant in SS&C by Chris M
Slave Safety (Manual) by slave Coyote
An SM Spirituality Primer by Chris M
Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey
Some Facts About BDSM contributed by Master Fire and his kitten
So You Want To Be A Slave: The Realities by miria hunter
Sub Space by Mistress Steel
Ten Rules for Submissivess by Master Lordstar
Top Ten Rules for Dom/mes by Master Lordstar
Understanding Submission (Manual)by Peter
Page 1 - Introduction, Goals, & Definitions
Page 2 - Cornerstones
Page 3 - PDR: Abuse and Submission
Page 4 - What Makes A Submissive
Page 5 - The Dominant Factor
Page 6 - The Submissive Reaction(to PDR)
Page 7 - Growth & Development
Wannabe or Domiant Author Unknown
What is a "scene" and what is "negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus
Where Do I Start (Manual) by Sensuous Sadie
Getting Involved In The BDSM Community
Exploring Relationship Options In BDSM
Getting up to Speed on the Technical Stuff of
Dominance
Okay I have a Submissive What the Heck Do I Do
Now?
CONTRACTS & NEGOTIATIONS
Beyond Limits by Mistress Steel
Considering a 24/7 Relationship by Sensuous Sadie
D/s Questionnaire by Master LordStar
Establishing Limits by miria hunter
Hard Limits by Mistress Steel
Interviewing a Prospective D/s or BDSM Partner by Clair Matin
Negotiating the Emotional Landscape of D/s Play by Sensous Sadie
Negotiation Form by Master LordStar
On Patience: Or, How Do I Get A Dom Anyway? by MsMargo
Sex Slave Rules and Contracts by Lord Cuff * Sex Slaves of
Hickory Switch
Taking Repsonsibility by Mistress Steel
What is a "Scene" and What is a "Negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus
HEALTH & SAFETY
Abuse and Safety in BDSM by CrimsonLord
Abuse in BDSM by SilverOz
Abuse in BDSM - Are You Being Abused? by International
S/M-Leather-Fetish Celebration; text provided by Jan Hall.
Abuse, subs need to take a stand by bob harris
An Obedient and Good Girl by Scott Yancey
BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne
I: BDSM and Child Abuse
II: BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne
Breath Control Play, The Medical Realities of by Jay Wiseman
Coronary Heart Disease: Angina & Heart Attack Its Impact Upon
the BDSM Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN
Cyber-rape....or the Perception of Cyber-rape by Esmerelda
Dealing With Abuse by Mistress Steel
Diabetes Mellitus: Its Impact Upon the BDSM
Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN
Domestic Violence in The Leather/ BDSM/ Fetish
Community
Preamble/History
Official Statement on DV
Pamphlet 1 - Abuse vs. BDSM
Pamphlet 2 - What Newcomers Should Know
Pamphlet 3 - Polyamorous Considerations
Pamphlet 4 - Master/slave Considerations
Pamphlet 5 - Considerations for Sex Workers
Pamphlet 6 - Considerations for Transgenders
Pamphlet 7 - Considerations for Submissives
Pamphlet 8 - Considerations for Dominants
Pamphlet 9 - Abuse Based on Size
Pamphlet 10 - Abuse Based on Age
Pamphlet 11 - Abuse Based on Physical Ability
Pamphlet 12 - Considerations for the Deaf by National Leather
Association-International
(NLA-I)
Domestic Violence in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender
Relationships by Colorado Anti-Violence Program
D/s Injuries by Anonymous
How do you simulate a nonconsensual spanking? by Little Girl Lost
Psychotherapy & D/s by Alan Meltzer
Safety For Women by Author Unknown
Safewords: To Red or not to Red by miria hunter
Slave Safety by slave Coyote
Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey
STD Series: Chlamydia by Nurse Tulsa
Sterile Safety by Mistress Steel
Ten Tips For Dungeon Monitors by Jay Wiseman
EQUIPMENT
Toys
APPAREL
BONDAGE
EDGE PLAY
FETISH
PERSONAL COLUMNS
From the Top
From the Bottom
Misc.
Beginners Guide to Dominance and Submission (Manual)
By James Bryant
Common Mistakes New People Make by Anonymous
BDSM Isn't What It Used To Be by Keith L Kendrick
Creating Your First Scene by Mistress Steel
Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3 - Summary
Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 1 by Mistress Steel
Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol - Part 2 by Mistress Steel
Dungeon Party Etiquette by Xmentor
Eight Techniques for Maintaining Communication and
Trust During a Scene by Chris M
Finding a Kinky Partner (Manual) by Tamar Kay
Knowing yourself and your values
Knowing whom you're looking for
Being respectful and caring about others
Having fun and sharing fun
Good communication
I Said, You Heard by CC
Miscellaneous Tips & Info for Newbies
Excerpts from 12/6/00 Dungeon Chat
Munch Etiquette by Xmentor
Protocol vs Etiquette by Xmentor
Public Play - Be Discreet When Out In Public Author Unknown
Responsibilities of a Dominant By Les Is More
Safe, Sane, and Consensual by Tamar Kay
Safety For Women Author Unknown
Safewords: To Red or Not to Red by miria hunter
Sanity: The Central Tenant in SS&C by Chris M
Slave Safety (Manual) by slave Coyote
An SM Spirituality Primer by Chris M
Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey
Some Facts About BDSM contributed by Master Fire and his kitten
So You Want To Be A Slave: The Realities by miria hunter
Sub Space by Mistress Steel
Ten Rules for Submissivess by Master Lordstar
Top Ten Rules for Dom/mes by Master Lordstar
Understanding Submission (Manual)by Peter
Page 1 - Introduction, Goals, & Definitions
Page 2 - Cornerstones
Page 3 - PDR: Abuse and Submission
Page 4 - What Makes A Submissive
Page 5 - The Dominant Factor
Page 6 - The Submissive Reaction(to PDR)
Page 7 - Growth & Development
Wannabe or Domiant Author Unknown
What is a "scene" and what is "negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus
Where Do I Start (Manual) by Sensuous Sadie
Getting Involved In The BDSM Community
Exploring Relationship Options In BDSM
Getting up to Speed on the Technical Stuff of
Dominance
Okay I have a Submissive What the Heck Do I Do
Now?
CONTRACTS & NEGOTIATIONS
Beyond Limits by Mistress Steel
Considering a 24/7 Relationship by Sensuous Sadie
D/s Questionnaire by Master LordStar
Establishing Limits by miria hunter
Hard Limits by Mistress Steel
Interviewing a Prospective D/s or BDSM Partner by Clair Matin
Negotiating the Emotional Landscape of D/s Play by Sensous Sadie
Negotiation Form by Master LordStar
On Patience: Or, How Do I Get A Dom Anyway? by MsMargo
Sex Slave Rules and Contracts by Lord Cuff * Sex Slaves of
Hickory Switch
Taking Repsonsibility by Mistress Steel
What is a "Scene" and What is a "Negotiation"? by Rob Jellinghaus
HEALTH & SAFETY
Abuse and Safety in BDSM by CrimsonLord
Abuse in BDSM by SilverOz
Abuse in BDSM - Are You Being Abused? by International
S/M-Leather-Fetish Celebration; text provided by Jan Hall.
Abuse, subs need to take a stand by bob harris
An Obedient and Good Girl by Scott Yancey
BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne
I: BDSM and Child Abuse
II: BDSM and Abuse by Raven Shadowborne
Breath Control Play, The Medical Realities of by Jay Wiseman
Coronary Heart Disease: Angina & Heart Attack Its Impact Upon
the BDSM Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN
Cyber-rape....or the Perception of Cyber-rape by Esmerelda
Dealing With Abuse by Mistress Steel
Diabetes Mellitus: Its Impact Upon the BDSM
Lifestyle by Mistress Tammy, RN
Domestic Violence in The Leather/ BDSM/ Fetish
Community
Preamble/History
Official Statement on DV
Pamphlet 1 - Abuse vs. BDSM
Pamphlet 2 - What Newcomers Should Know
Pamphlet 3 - Polyamorous Considerations
Pamphlet 4 - Master/slave Considerations
Pamphlet 5 - Considerations for Sex Workers
Pamphlet 6 - Considerations for Transgenders
Pamphlet 7 - Considerations for Submissives
Pamphlet 8 - Considerations for Dominants
Pamphlet 9 - Abuse Based on Size
Pamphlet 10 - Abuse Based on Age
Pamphlet 11 - Abuse Based on Physical Ability
Pamphlet 12 - Considerations for the Deaf by National Leather
Association-International
(NLA-I)
Domestic Violence in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender
Relationships by Colorado Anti-Violence Program
D/s Injuries by Anonymous
How do you simulate a nonconsensual spanking? by Little Girl Lost
Psychotherapy & D/s by Alan Meltzer
Safety For Women by Author Unknown
Safewords: To Red or not to Red by miria hunter
Slave Safety by slave Coyote
Some Basics of Safe SM by Johnson Grey
STD Series: Chlamydia by Nurse Tulsa
Sterile Safety by Mistress Steel
Ten Tips For Dungeon Monitors by Jay Wiseman
EQUIPMENT
Toys
APPAREL
BONDAGE
EDGE PLAY
FETISH
PERSONAL COLUMNS
From the Top
From the Bottom
Misc.
TYPES OF PLAY
The Basics of Flogging By Keith L Kendrick
Grim's Flogging FAQ's (Manual) by Grim
The Basics of Flogging By Keith L Kendrick
Grim's Flogging FAQ's (Manual) by Grim
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