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Introduction & Instructions


Intro:
We have all (well, most of us), at some point or another, come across those long lists of sexual/BDSM activities also known as "BDSM Check Lists"
(Hey, some of them are even posted here in the BRC article section).

These lists are a great tool for self evaluation and are very beneficial when it comes to seriously negotiating with a potential Dom/sub.

Problem is, that if you want to fill in such a check-list, you:

  1. Have to find a suitable one.
  2. Have to print it out.
  3. Have to fill out the hard copy. (And God forbid you make a mistake…)
  4. Have to use 'snail mail' if you want to send it to someone.

Until Now!

This is how it works:

Basically, it is a long, long long list of activities.

For each of these activities you mark whether or not you have experienced it and how much it appealed to you at the time. If you have not experienced that particular activity, your rating relates to the degree of ummm, satisfaction you think you would derive from that activity.

Fill the form from the perspective of your D/s orientation. i.e. If you are Dom and the activity is 'flogging' - You rate it as giving a flogging. If you are a sub, you rate it as receiving one. If you are a switch... Well, you'll just have to fill in the form twice, won't you? Hey, can't have all the fun all the time, right?

Activity Yes No
 

- Activities marked with the word 'limit' indicate your limits.
- '0' indicates that this activity, while not a limit, is very undesirable.
- '1' indicates that this activity is undesirable.
- '2' indicates that you are neutral in regard to this activity.
- '3' indicates that this activity is desirable.
- '4' indicates that this activity is very desirable.
- N/A indicates activities which you feel are not applicable to you. (CBT if you are a female sub, for instance...)

After you have completed filling out the form (And again, be warned - It's a long list. If you want to fill it out seriously, allocate at least 30 minutes for it), you will get a result page with everything you filled in. A page that you can then print out (And there's your hard copy already filled in for you) or, if you chose to do so, send it out to… well, anyone who has an email address.

Having said that, as always, I urge you to exercise caution before sharing any personal information, including your check list.

On our part, we assure you that none of the information that you fill in is gathered by us. NONE! We don't even send out 'cookies' to 'remember' you next time you come back like many other sites do.

Have Fun!

CC,
The BRC webMaster

 
  
We urge you to exercise caution before deciding to share any personal information, including these results. In any case, please remember: You, and you alone are responsible for any information you decide to share and any consequences that may arise thereafter.